Gifts Are Meant To Be Felt.

An Offering Is Only Real If It Costs You.

You say you want to give me everything. This is what 'everything' looks like: time, attention, comfort, and the soft parts of you literally hanging on my decision. An offering is not a poem. It is weight, pressure, and the ache you choose to wear for me.

You're not a gift just because you want to kneel

Define Your Offering Value In Practice

Wanting to submit doesn't make you special. What you bring to the dynamic does. Your time, your attention, your willingness to follow through - or your habit of vanishing when things get real.

Make Contact

Start with honesty.

No drama. Just the truth.

Still unsure you're worth my time?

Keep going

Path 09 · Offering
What you give, not just what you want.

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CONTROL ARTIST

Not Your Girlfriend

Most men approach women like me with a list of what they want to feel. Very few come with a clear sense of what they're prepared to give: consistency, respect, resources, effort.

On this page, you drop the "pick me" performance and actually define what someone like me would gain from having you under my hand.

House Rules · Offering

1. Time. How much time and mental bandwidth are you genuinely willing to devote to this part of your life - weekly? Be specific.
2. Energy. What kind of effort can you reliably bring? Written tasks, learning, self-work, service in your real life? State what's realistic, not what sounds grand.
3. Resources. Without numbers, state your relationship to investing in yourself: do you chronically under-invest, or are you willing to put resources behind what you claim you want?
4. Email if you're ready to talk like an adult. If you write to me from this page, your message should read like an offer, not a plea. I am not a vending machine for your unmet needs.